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Getting Yourself Ready for Real Change

December 19, 20253 min read

Losing Weight Starts in the Mind

Losing weight isn’t just about diet and exercise—it’s about changing your
mindset first. If your thinking doesn’t shift, old habits will keep pulling you back.

Here are the most powerful mindset shifts to help you lose weight and keep it
off.


1. Decide Once and for All

Many people say they “want” to lose weight, but wanting isn’t the same as
deciding. A true decision cuts off all other options.

Mindset Shift:
Stop saying, “I’ll try” or “I hope I can do this.” Instead, say:
“I am committed. This is happening.”

How to Make a Solid Decision:

  • Write down WHY you’re doing this. (Health, confidence, energy?)

  • Set a non-negotiable rule (e.g., “I work out every morning, no matter what”).

  • Remind yourself daily: “I don’t need motivation. I follow my decision.”


2. Focus on Identity, Not Just Results

Most people chase numbers on the scale, but the real transformation happens
when you become the kind of person who naturally lives a healthy lifestyle.

Mindset Shift:
Instead of thinking, “I need to lose 20 pounds,” think:
“I am someone who eats healthy and moves daily.”

How to Do This:

  • Act as if you’re already that healthy person.

  • Ask: “Would a fit person skip this workout?”

  • Make small, consistent choices that reinforce your new identity.


3. Reframe Food as Fuel, Not Comfort

Emotional eating is a major roadblock. If you view food as a reward, you’ll keep
sabotaging yourself.

Mindset Shift:
Instead of thinking, “I deserve a treat,” think:
“I deserve to feel good in my body.”

How to Reframe Food:

  • Eat to nourish, not to numb emotions.

  • Before eating, ask: “Is this helping or hurting my goal?”

  • Find non-food rewards (massage, new clothes, etc.).


4. Embrace Imperfection & Keep Going

Many people quit because they expect perfection. One bad meal or missed
workout doesn’t ruin everything—giving up does.

Mindset Shift:
Instead of “I messed up, so I may as well quit,” think:
“One mistake won’t stop me. I get right back on track.”

How to Stay Consistent:

  • If you fall off, forgive yourself fast and move on.

  • Aim for progress, not perfection.

  • Have a “bounce-back” plan for slip-ups.


5. Shift from Motivation to Discipline

Motivation comes and goes, but discipline keeps you moving forward.

Mindset Shift:
Instead of “I need to feel motivated,” think:
“I do it because it’s who I am, not because I feel like it.”

How to Build Discipline:

  • Create routines (e.g., workout at the same time daily).

  • Make it non-negotiable, like brushing your teeth.

  • Lower resistance: lay out workout clothes, prep meals, etc.


6. Think Long-Term, Not Quick Fixes

Diets fail because people see them as temporary. The goal isn’t to lose weight
fast—it’s to keep it off for life.

Mindset Shift:
Instead of “I need to lose weight ASAP,” think:
“I am building lifelong healthy habits.”

How to Think Long-Term:

  • Choose habits you can sustain forever.

  • Avoid extreme diets—focus on balance.

  • Celebrate small wins and enjoy the journey.


Your Mindset = Your Results

The body follows the mind. Once you shift your thinking, everything else
becomes easier.

Decide. Commit. Keep going.
You got this.

Nick Howarth, founder of Best Body Health Coach (BBHC) and published author on health and wellness, has been transforming lives since 2013 through his innovative and personalized health coaching programs. With over a decade of experience, Nick has empowered thousands to achieve their health goals, including sustainable weight loss and the management of chronic medical conditions, by focusing on nutrition and holistic wellness.

Nick Howarth

Nick Howarth, founder of Best Body Health Coach (BBHC) and published author on health and wellness, has been transforming lives since 2013 through his innovative and personalized health coaching programs. With over a decade of experience, Nick has empowered thousands to achieve their health goals, including sustainable weight loss and the management of chronic medical conditions, by focusing on nutrition and holistic wellness.

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